If we aren’t careful, we can treat kissing like a stop along the way to sex. But good kissing can be its own destination and invites us to arrive, over and again, through our lips.  In this episode, I tell you how. 

2:13 I always considered myself a good kisser – but I was wrong.

1:50 Kissing is not a technical sport

2:50 We were taught that sex was a mission to accomplish.

3:47 Exhaustion, resentment and sexual aversion can ensue.

4:18 I describe an alternative way to approach sex.

5:51 A brief test of your lips’ nerve endings

7:07 Kissing conjures yearning – how can we stay there?

7:44 Follow the evolution in your sex, don’t lead it.

8:02 The secret to the art of good kissing

8:43 How we can touch all of the other through our lips

8:51 This week’s homework (for people who have kissing partners and also those who don’t too).

Resources: The song Marrow by Ani DiFranco

Podcast produced by Sal DeRosalia

Music composed and performed by Aimee Mia Kelley

Photo by Mia Harvey on Unsplash