What would you do if you got iced on your first date? Is that a creative icebreaker or immature tactic? In this episode, we dive into the topic of couples counseling. Is it a red flag if you’re going to counseling before you’re even married? Is that a sign that you’re just not a good fit for each other? We also discuss some complex couples counseling dynamics – is it okay for you to join in on your S.O.’s therapy sesh, or should you be working with a neutral third party who doesn’t know either of you? Would it be a dealbreaker if your partner wasn’t willing to go to therapy?

If that topic wasn’t heavy enough, we also chat about private versus secret relationships. Sure, it maybe makes sense for celebrities, but what about us normal folks? Would it be a red flag if someone started dating you but didn’t want anyone else to know? Ashley has some personal experience with this kind of scenario, but probably not in the way you’d think!

Next, Ashley runs us through some 60 Second Sips that has Olivia yelling “Absolutely not! 110% no!” while Amy is totally on board. Any guesses what this may be? We also chat about the Friends reunion and why it made Olivia cry like a little baby. Are we getting to that time in our lives when our friends are no longer our main family? Is this feeling part of what adds pressure to people about their timeline to get married and have kids? To top off this episode, we wonder if we’re getting too old for long hair. Is it time for our “mom haircuts” or can we hang onto our long locks for just a little longer?

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What is Shots & Thoughts? We're three 30-somethings hosting a podcast about dating, relationships, and life in general.

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Intro music: A Himitsu - Adventures: youtu.be/8BXNwnxaVQE