In this episode, we’re diving right in to talk about using a matchmaker. It sounds spendy, not very efficient, and questionably effective if you’re not finding different people than you could find on the apps. Should a matchmaker have a certain education background? How well should they get to know you first before they match you? Should they seek the assistance of a psychic?

One of the matchmakers had a rule: No texting before the date. Does this help prevent any preconceived notions about the other person and keep the daters more open minded? Or does it add stress to the first date?

After a quick round of 60 Second Sips, we talk about tiny houses and living out of a van. This seems to be a big trend prompted by the pandemic and people working more remotely, and we discuss whether or not this is really feasible for us. We have a lot of questions about composting toilets, for starters. And as Ashley so aptly points out, we wonder if social media glamorizes living in a teeny space when really it’s probably a huge headache. If you’re also curious, consider following @wander.onwheels and @vanswerthecall on Instagram (and don’t forget to follow us, too, if you haven’t yet!).

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What is Shots & Thoughts? We're three 30-somethings hosting a podcast about dating, relationships, and life in general.

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Intro music: A Himitsu - Adventures: youtu.be/8BXNwnxaVQE