True success comes from living a life that aligns with one’s values and desires, not just achieving external markers of success. In this episode, Christer Johnsen and Elin Solheim discuss the feeling of dissatisfaction despite external signs of success. This episode marks a shift for the show as it moves beyond inspiration into a more direct, practical approach, with clearer guidance and tools to help you create success that feels right from the inside out. Together, they unpack the gap between external success and internal fulfilment, why guilt often shows up for high achievers who “should be grateful,” and why this discomfort can actually be a sign you’re ready for growth. They also explore the hidden costs of chasing outcomes that don’t actually match who you are, how constant busyness can become a way of avoiding the larger issue, and what it looks like when you’re living someone else’s definition of success. If you’re ready to stop pushing through and start getting honest about what you truly want, then tune in to take the first real steps towards it.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Find out how you can feel that something is “off” despite being successful.
• Learn the difference between external achievement and internal fulfilment.
• Hear how guilt and “I should be happy” thinking can keep you stuck.
• Explore what it takes to achieve inner happiness and fulfilment. 
• Discover why growth often comes from a place of discomfort. 
• The importance of getting clear on what you want before you set goals.
• Uncover why the solution to success is not working harder. 
• Why feeling dissatisfied with your life is a moment of reflection, not reaction.
• Advice on how to begin taking small steps to create the life you truly want.
• Final words on the value of working with mentors and investing in yourself.

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Christer Johnsen Coaching

Christer Johnsen Coaching Email

Christer Johnsen on LinkedIn

Christer Johnsen on Instagram

Christer Johnsen on YouTube

Christer Johnsen on Facebook

Elin Solheim on LinkedIn