Kate and Karyne from The Gayest Show on Birth podcast, share what exactly reciprocal IVF is, why they decided to choose an anonymous sperm donor, how they handled questions and comments from friends and family, addressing issues with diversity, privilege and language use in the fertility and reproductive community and their advice for anyone going through this process. Kate and Karyne also tell us why they created their podcast and what going through IVF in real time on the show is like.