We all hate that weird period early on in relationships when we don't know if the other person is as ready as we are to move on to the next stage. Sometimes that limbo land can drag on for months, or sometimes it just takes one little push to finally take the step. 

'Are we official?' can go either way, but in this episode, we talk about how one grand romantic gesture changed the course of our relationship from ‘let’s just be friends’ to ‘let’s give this a go’. We also touch on how our personalities help us communicate during times of tension and how being too hyper objective can cause decision paralysis and confusion. 

Shower thought of the week: Have you ever thought about the fact that watering a lake makes it grow?