What happens if you are more than ready to add a baby to your stepfamily but your spouse/partner is hesitant?  

Maybe he is reluctant to have to put his kids through yet another major change.  

He may feel stretched financially and is concerned about the costs involved in adding another child.  Perhaps he is older and feels like the baby ship has sailed:  He is beyond wanting to consider all things baby and wants to focus on building a life with you and his kids.  While those reasons may all be justifiable, at the end of the day, will you resent him or your stepkids if you don’t ever have a child in your life who calls you “Mommy?” On today’s podcast, we’re going to talk about what stepmoms should consider before adding an ours baby to her family.