Episode 41 — Sibling Rivalry Through a Regulation Lens

Sibling rivalry can feel constant and overwhelming—but what if it's not misbehaviour at all?

In this episode, Julia explores sibling conflict through a nervous system lens, drawing on the work of Melanie Klein. You'll discover how rivalry is actually a form of emotional development, where children are learning to hold love and envy at the same time.

We look at what's really happening beneath the fighting, how the nervous system drives these reactions, and how to respond in ways that support regulation, connection, and emotional growth.

Because underneath every "that's not fair"… is a child wondering, "Do I still matter?"

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