What does it mean to be Un-Offend-Able? I get asked this question a lot.  I first thought of this concept when I got serious about taking accountability for my life 20+ years ago. When I decided to stop letting other people dictate how I felt by the way they acted or showed up in my life. When I realized everything is a choice and my choice to feel offended was just that, a choice. I was tired of taking things the wrong way. And don't get me wrong - I am not talking about how they were meant. I am talking about that next level where we decide how we want to take something. Where we decide how we want to frame something.  And out of that I realized that cutting people off was a lot like being offended. Calling other people 'toxic' without acknowledging my own energy there was a lot like being offended.  Making other people the reason for how I felt or the moves I made was over for me. I decided to be the dominant energy and become un-offend-able and stand in my own power. I have fallen down a few times and then gotten back up but I have never looked back.