Following the latest drama between Dani Leigh and her on/off boyfriend hiphop bad boy DaBaby where he supposedly kicked her out his house live on IG and called the police to report that she assaulted him again live on social media - we look at this situation and ask what if. What if she didn't have a baby with a man with a not so suitable track record or credentials that would make for a good baby father? Fact...Men bare equal responsibility for the making of a child period…but what responsibility if any do women have for choosing to have a child with a men whose credentials or track record make them obviously unsuitable to be good partners or fathers? Also in 2021 there are have various forms of contraception but is it wrong for the morning after pill or an abortion to be seen as equally viable options to manage unplanned parenthood?