It's always interesting to learn what goes on in the back of your children's minds when you are experiencing a major paradigm shift.  How are they affected by the choices their parents make, especially when those choices involve leaving a major part of their lives growing up? How do they process these experiences?  How much do our children really depend on god or religion for guidance? Do they experience despair, confusion, anger or betrayal once they've learned that what their parents taught them all their lives was no longer valid?  What you'll hear might surprise you.  Take a behind the scene look at how my decision to discard religion impacted my daughter Teuila.