This idea of the performing monkey stemmed from a conversation with my daughter after her glowing report card. 

What it takes to be "successful" at school, work, in relationships, or even in life isn't always aligned with who we are. When we measure by other people's standards, we need to become the performing monkey to succeed.

This concept has resulted in a lot of inward reflection for me, and I hope it does the same for you.

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