Life is not permanent, our time here should be thought of like a stop at an Inn.  When you spend the night at a hotel, you don't typically get attached to the furniture or other objects within. When its time to go you move on and another guest takes your place. 
https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Of_Consolation:_To_Marcia#XXI.
Epictetus and the boat #7…  http://classics.mit.edu/Epictetus/epicench.html 
Marcus V #33    http://classics.mit.edu/Antoninus/meditations.html
Thank you to Dr. Gregory Sadler for the introduction!  Check out his videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEtxsMx4qsoitFwjBdLU_gA
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