What do we do when the unexpected stress overwhelms us? While it is grace that helps me recognize how I can do my part to make things better or reform and improve, grace also takes on the role of telling me, "You can let go of blame. You can be free of having to plan and execute the perfect scenario". Instead of calling ourselves a failure when we find ourselves in a place of overwhelm, grace allows us to experience tension AND have peace at the same time. It's not an either/or. It's both/and.