From Midlife to Best Life

Episode 6: Breakup

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Summary
 
In this episode, Ana and her guest, Harjeet, discuss the complexities of breakups, exploring the emotional and biological impacts of relationship endings. They delve into the stages of grief associated with breakups, offering practical tips for healing and emphasizing the importance of social support. The conversation highlights the potential for personal growth and self-discovery that can arise from navigating the pain of a breakup, along with resources for further support.
 
Takeaways
  • Breakups are a form of social grief that can affect us deeply.
  • Understanding the biological response to breakups can help in healing.
  • Grief is not a linear process; it can involve moving back and forth between stages.
  • Having a solid social support system is crucial during a breakup.
  • It's important to recognize and articulate what support you need from others.
  • Writing down both the positives and negatives of a relationship can aid in healing.
  • Healing from a breakup involves addressing both the loss and any trauma from the relationship.
  • Self-awareness and reflection are key to personal growth after a breakup.
  • Therapy can provide a safe space to process emotions and experiences.
  • You will get through the pain and reconnect with yourself.

    • Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Breakups and Personal Growth

    07:49 Navigating the Stages of Grief
    13:33 The Role of Social Support in Healing
    23:58 Learning and Growth from Breakups
    29:03 Key Takeaways and Resources for Healing

    Resources

    1. Book by John Gottman Ph.D. and Nan Silver: What Makes Love Last?: How to Build Trust and Avoid Betrayal
    2. Book by Sally Winston: Overcoming Anticipatory Anxiety: A CBT Guide for Moving past Chronic Indecisiveness, Avoidance, and Catastrophic Thinking
    3. Book and TED Talk by Dr. Guy Winch: How to Fix a Broken Heart
    4. TED Talk by Antonio Pascual-Leone: How to Get Over The End of a Relationship
    5. Book by John Kim: Break Up On Purpose: A Catalyst for Growth
    6. Book by Amy Chan: Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart
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      From Midlife to Best LifeBy Ana Yun & Iris Cai