We develop our relationships with our loved ones by communicating on a day-to-day basis. It's the same way with God. You should want to have the communication with Him and make Him first in every moment of your every day. Start your day with prayer. God wants to answer your prayers. He really wants to love on you and show you what He has for you. You got to want these things by asking Him to come into your life, asking him to take the to give you direction, and asking him to break the things that you feel you cannot overcome.