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Episode 6: Hall of Mirrors Part 1
We are beginning a 5-part series: Hall of Mirrors. Today: how your home may mirror your relationships.
· Many aspects of life reflect who we are… Beliefs – emo – behaviors – the way we relate
· What does it mean that your home may be a reflection of your relationships? 1st everything is a relationship. Not cut & dry.
· Beliefs/motivations:
o Fancy home to show off - value maintenance. Few close friends. Loyal. May not trust others, though. May deal with imposter syndrome. (Independent)
o Nice on the outside but cluttered interior. Value appearances. Trouble w/ boundaries & self-care. (Dependent)
o Disorganized outside and inside – very overwhelmed, depressed. Push-pull in relationships. (Disorganized)
o “Good enough” exterior and interior – home is just a home, not a reflection of your value. Want to give what it needs and receive what you need (Interdependent and reciprocity)
· Home reflects safety and security; therefore, TRUST. Trust is the bond that holds relationships together.
o Invite people over into your home. Inviting inside life/self.
· Story about going to the coast…
· Driving as a reflection of your relationships – Interdependence.
How does understanding your home as a mirror of your relationship help you LEAD Lucky? Recognize that the exterior does not necessarily reflect the interior. We need to look at beliefs and motivations. Be curious, not critical.
Closing: What is one thing you will take away from the episode today? What will you do?
Remember: Living Lucky is not living alone…if this helped you, share it. Second, connect with us and post questions. The links are in the notes… I appreciate being with you today, and I look forward to discussing more about Living Lucky tomorrow.
www.live-lucky.com
https://www.facebook.com/LiveLuckyTherapy
https://www.twitter.com/blakesuzelis
https://www.instagram.com/liveluckytherapy
https://www.linkedin.com/in/blake-suzelis-2a741015/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAMLVaEJBDhT-_3Qe9hrTgw
The Gift of Luck book:
https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Luck-Stages-Lasting-Change/dp/1791954804
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By Dr. Blake SuzelisWe are beginning a 5-part series: Hall of Mirrors. Today: how your home may mirror your relationships.
· Many aspects of life reflect who we are… Beliefs – emo – behaviors – the way we relate
· What does it mean that your home may be a reflection of your relationships? 1st everything is a relationship. Not cut & dry.
· Beliefs/motivations:
o Fancy home to show off - value maintenance. Few close friends. Loyal. May not trust others, though. May deal with imposter syndrome. (Independent)
o Nice on the outside but cluttered interior. Value appearances. Trouble w/ boundaries & self-care. (Dependent)
o Disorganized outside and inside – very overwhelmed, depressed. Push-pull in relationships. (Disorganized)
o “Good enough” exterior and interior – home is just a home, not a reflection of your value. Want to give what it needs and receive what you need (Interdependent and reciprocity)
· Home reflects safety and security; therefore, TRUST. Trust is the bond that holds relationships together.
o Invite people over into your home. Inviting inside life/self.
· Story about going to the coast…
· Driving as a reflection of your relationships – Interdependence.
How does understanding your home as a mirror of your relationship help you LEAD Lucky? Recognize that the exterior does not necessarily reflect the interior. We need to look at beliefs and motivations. Be curious, not critical.
Closing: What is one thing you will take away from the episode today? What will you do?
Remember: Living Lucky is not living alone…if this helped you, share it. Second, connect with us and post questions. The links are in the notes… I appreciate being with you today, and I look forward to discussing more about Living Lucky tomorrow.
www.live-lucky.com
https://www.facebook.com/LiveLuckyTherapy
https://www.twitter.com/blakesuzelis
https://www.instagram.com/liveluckytherapy
https://www.linkedin.com/in/blake-suzelis-2a741015/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAMLVaEJBDhT-_3Qe9hrTgw
The Gift of Luck book:
https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Luck-Stages-Lasting-Change/dp/1791954804