Sometimes, what we call a season of isolation is actually something else—a defense mechanism dressed up as discernment. In Part 1 of It’s Not What It Looks Like, we take a hard look at the self-serving, unhealthy boundaries we often set in the name of “protecting our peace.”

This episode is an invitation to give God our hurt feelings and hidden grievances, instead of letting them lead us into disobedience. Cutting people off, ghosting, or walking away from situations without God’s direction isn’t wisdom—it’s woundedness.

Let’s talk about what it means to be Spirit-led, not feelings-led. Healing starts when we stop letting hurt guide our hearts.