We can't control the world, or others; we can however control our own minds, how we interpret things, how we react, and of course with all of this ...we can control how we create our lives. But since we are in the human experience, even being woke and living our lives with a deep sense of self love doesn't mean life won't keep sending us experiences that aren't always pleasant. Let me tell you how while sharing some interesting and funny, yet embarrassing stories. We can both get a laugh, but hopefully I can also inspire you to see life with a better mindset. So that you take control of yours.