Let’s delve into the historical and contemporary significance of marriage traditions in Turkey. Our guest Zeynep explains how mothers with unwed sons would start their search within their inner circles, often consulting Turkish bath owners and street sellers, known as "bohçacı," who had intimate knowledge of the community and could recommend eligible girls.The episode then delves into the detailed process of the "görücü" visit, where the groom's family visits the prospective bride's family. Timing, dress code, and etiquette during these visits are crucial, with Turkish coffee playing a central role in the proposal process. The discussion emphasizes the importance of family background and social status to ensure compatibility. It is encapsulated in the Turkish saying "Davul bile dengi dengine çalar," meaning even a drum beats harmoniously with its counterpart.Also, do these traditions meet the demands and desires of 21st century couples?