“Settling”.... many look at this as negative thing in a relationship; but it’s the same as compromising...figuring out your wants and needs! Nobody is perfect and your not going to find everything in one person! If a man loves you, treat you right, but only make 30k a year; are you going to say no because of his income??? If a man has a little d*** but make good money and you stay aren’t you settling??? Most men desire a woman thats a certain body type (small waist, big butt) news flash all women aren’t shapely but happily married so did their men settle? Rather people want to admit it or not, everyone has settled for something in a relationship! Can you coparent living in the same house? We say no because how can you move on and fall in love if your still living with your ex?