How do we keep real connection—and real truth—when our views clash?

We live in echo chambers where even shared events feel like different realities. As followers of Jesus, how can we speak truth without severing friendships—or idolizing “unity” over Christ Himself? 

Host Liza welcomes Pastor Tim for a candid, practical conversation on staying connected in a divided world. They name cultural forces (algorithms, postmodern self-truth) that make dialogue harder, then re-center on Jesus as the Truth and the One who forms a durable, resilient body. Unity, they argue, is the byproduct of pursuing Christ together—not the primary goal. A powerful story of two politically opposed church members who chose six weeks of Scripture and prayer illustrates how friendship can grow where polarization once lived. 

Key Takeaways

• Start with Jesus, not “being unified.” Unity emerges as we move toward Christ together. 
• Speak the truth in love—really. Love isn’t avoiding offense; it’s caring enough to say the hard thing with humility. 
• Name the fears. Many of us avoid hard talks because we don’t trust the relationship’s durability. 
• Resist echo chambers. Algorithms can make one event look like two realities; choose shared sources and Scripture. 
• Pursue Scripture together. Opening the Bible side-by-side reframes “my truth vs. your truth” toward Jesus’ way. 

Action Steps / Practical Applications

• ✅ Pick one person you often disagree with and invite them to read a Gospel together weekly for six weeks; pray before and after. 
• ✅ Do a “truth & love” check before speaking: Is what I’m saying true? Is my posture loving? 
• ✅ Name your fear out loud (“I’m worried this will hurt our friendship”) to lower defensiveness and build trust. 
• ✅ Share a common reference point (Scripture, agreed facts) to prevent talking past each other. 
• ✅ Limit algorithm drift this week: diversify news inputs and prioritize face-to-face conversations.