What is your image of the perfect father? Is it Cliff Huxtable? Whether your vision is based upon Hollywood or your own experience, we have to remember that fathers are also human. How we hold them with our judgments is important. Are we able to love them, warts and all? Let us pray for our fathers in whatever form they may present. In truth, we are reflections of some aspects of them and who are we to judge. 
God bless,
Rev Leon