Have you ever been getting hot and heavy with someone but you weren't actually into it? You were wet or erect, but your mind was thinking, "what's for dinner" or "eh, I'm just not that horny". Well, it's very common and I'm here to talk about it as your sex advocate!

I just finished reading Emily Nagoski's book Come As You Are and learned an abundance of information in regard to women's sexual health! I'm here today to talk about arousal non-concordance as an overview from one of the chapters in her book.