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Episode 7: LOVE SURVEY SAYS


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In a constant journey to improve himself, and build stronger relationships, Jon stumbled upon a survey geared towards creating love between two people. We decided to turn the survey on it’s head and record our answers to the questions with each other, unrehearsed and unscripted. The result was a lot of fun and gives a deeper glimpse into our lives and minds. Listen for more. Enjoy!

THE BASICS

  • This 1997 Study by Psychologist Arthur Aron studied how the 36 questions could boost intimacy between subjects.
  • Deviating from our typical topics, we decided to go through these survey questions with each other to get to know each other and give our listeners a closer glimpse into our lives and minds. 
  • Questions are broken into 3 sets, with each set getting more and more intimate. A timer should be set for 15 minutes for each set.

SET ONE: (Time: 4:19) 

  • Steve starts the clock and we let the love survey begin!

SET TWO: (Time:21:00)

  • Second round gets a little more complex, and we went a few minutes past the 15 minute mark.
  • Correction: Jon was way off when he said 300-400 billion to 1. The actual is 400 TRILLION to 1. Take it from Gary Vaynerchuk: It’s impossible to be a human being. You Already Won.   
  • Steve’s most treasured memory- His wedding at Crystal Mountain
  • Jon’s most treasured memory- His first long trip with his fiance to Tulum.


SET THREE (38:00):

  • Things are getting deep and a little cheesy sharing what we like and respect about each other. (43:50)
  • Apparently we both hate the way we sound on this podcast, but we do it anyway. Sticking with past themes: If you want to do something, JUST GO FOR IT! (53:00)
  • Went a little long again, thanks for sticking with us!

WILL IT WORK!? (59:00):

We think the questions can definitely help accelerate closeness or intimacy, but the jury is still out on whether or not they’d specifically lead to love. Email us at [email protected] and tell us what you think!

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