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Episode 7 : Stop Letting Your Past Define You
In this raw, reflective episode, Raven invites listeners into a powerful space of healing, truth, and transformation. Speaking from the heart, Raven unpacks how past mistakes, repeated bad decisions, and shame don’t have to define your future. With complete vulnerability, she shares how years of choices rooted in pain shaped her journey—but ultimately became the soil for her growth.
Raven teaches us how to take accountability without self-condemnation, how to give ourselves grace in the face of imperfection, and how to begin trusting ourselves again—even when our track record has been messy. If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of regret or unsure how to forgive yourself, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air and a spiritual reset.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
How Raven’s decisions around love and relationships shaped her growth
The emotional toll of self-blame and what it really means to forgive yourself
The importance of talking to yourself with grace instead of shame
A mindset shift: from “mistakes” to “lessons that led to your becoming”
How to recognize when a “mistake” has become a repeated choice
A practical reflection exercise to finally move forward
Key Takeaways:
You’re human—give yourself grace, not shame
Learn to separate being a mistake-maker from being a mistake
Don’t let repeated choices rob you of a redeemed future
Healing begins with honesty, compassion, and a mindset shift
Raven’s Reminder:
“Your past decisions are not your identity. You’re not your mistakes—you’re the person who survived them, learned from them, and is now growing because of them.”
Challenge of the Week:
Write a letter to yourself.
Acknowledge one big past decision that’s been weighing on you.
Offer yourself forgiveness, compassion, and grace.
End the letter with a commitment to how you’ll love and support yourself moving forward.
Bonus: Write down 3 ways your past has actually helped you grow.
🎧 Listen now on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or visit www.shopberare.com for the full episode list.
💬 Follow Raven on Instagram @berarewithraven for updates and daily inspiration.
🔁 Be rare. Be you. Be authentic.
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In this raw, reflective episode, Raven invites listeners into a powerful space of healing, truth, and transformation. Speaking from the heart, Raven unpacks how past mistakes, repeated bad decisions, and shame don’t have to define your future. With complete vulnerability, she shares how years of choices rooted in pain shaped her journey—but ultimately became the soil for her growth.
Raven teaches us how to take accountability without self-condemnation, how to give ourselves grace in the face of imperfection, and how to begin trusting ourselves again—even when our track record has been messy. If you’ve ever felt stuck in cycles of regret or unsure how to forgive yourself, this episode will feel like a breath of fresh air and a spiritual reset.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
How Raven’s decisions around love and relationships shaped her growth
The emotional toll of self-blame and what it really means to forgive yourself
The importance of talking to yourself with grace instead of shame
A mindset shift: from “mistakes” to “lessons that led to your becoming”
How to recognize when a “mistake” has become a repeated choice
A practical reflection exercise to finally move forward
Key Takeaways:
You’re human—give yourself grace, not shame
Learn to separate being a mistake-maker from being a mistake
Don’t let repeated choices rob you of a redeemed future
Healing begins with honesty, compassion, and a mindset shift
Raven’s Reminder:
“Your past decisions are not your identity. You’re not your mistakes—you’re the person who survived them, learned from them, and is now growing because of them.”
Challenge of the Week:
Write a letter to yourself.
Acknowledge one big past decision that’s been weighing on you.
Offer yourself forgiveness, compassion, and grace.
End the letter with a commitment to how you’ll love and support yourself moving forward.
Bonus: Write down 3 ways your past has actually helped you grow.
🎧 Listen now on Apple, Spotify, YouTube, or visit www.shopberare.com for the full episode list.
💬 Follow Raven on Instagram @berarewithraven for updates and daily inspiration.
🔁 Be rare. Be you. Be authentic.