Kim Orr

Welcome to Between Here and Heaven. I'm Tara Delaney, and I'm so grateful that you're here. This podcast episode comes from a very personal and vulnerable story. It is a place that was born from love, from loss, and from the quiet, unwavering truth that some connections never die. This podcast is a safe place for grief, for healing, for the signs from beyond, but most of all for honoring the light that lives beyond the darkness. Whether you're moving through loss or learning to live again with a broken heart, this space is for you. I don't claim to have all the answers, but I do have stories, I have received signs, and I believe in a love that never left. So let's begin Between Here and Heaven. Today, I’m joined by my new friend, Kim Orr, who shares her heartbreaking journey of losing her partner of 27 years to cancer. Kim's story is a testament to the power of love and the complexities of grief. We dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of anticipatory grief, the challenges of watching a loved one suffer, and the bittersweet memories that linger long after they are gone. Kim and I discuss how grief is a unique journey for everyone, and how it can reshape our lives in ways we never expected. If you’ve ever felt lost in your grief or wondered how to navigate the pain of loss, this episode is for you. Join us as we explore the healing power of love, the importance of patience, and the need for understanding in our grieving process. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Let’s honor our loved ones together and find solace in the shared experience of love and loss.

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Chapters

00:00:00 - Introduction

00:00:58 - Introduction of Guest - Kim Orr

00:01:24 - Kim Orr's Story

00:04:56 - Tara Delaney's Story

00:06:07 - Comparing Experiences

00:06:22 - Impact of Anticipatory Grief

00:09:53 - Reflection on Sudden Loss

00:11:41 - Kim Orr's Preference for Sudden Loss

00:13:28 - Tara Delaney's Experience of Sudden Loss

00:15:33 - Contemplating Life and Death

00:16:32 - Support from Friends and Family

00:17:18 - Understanding Grief

00:18:46 - The Impact of Grief on Personality

00:20:56 - Patience and Understanding in Grief

00:23:20 - Accepting Grief and Giving Grace

00:25:12 - The Unpredictability and Individuality of Grief

00:27:28 - The Definition of Grief

00:28:49 - Love, Loss, and Reflection

00:31:01 - Need for Grief Education and Discussion

00:31:54 - Personal Experiences with Grief Groups

00:32:26 - Feeling Alone in Grief

00:33:42 - Closing Remarks and Encouragement