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Have you ever seen someone get something you wanted — maybe your friend got a new phone, someone else got picked first, or a classmate got a higher grade — and you felt that little twist inside that says, “Why not me?”

That feeling is called jealousy. And if we’re not careful, it can steal the joy and thankfulness right out of our hearts.

In the Bible, there were two brothers named Cain and Abel.

Both wanted to bring an offering to God. Abel brought his very best — the best parts of the firstborn animals from his flock.

But Cain only brought some of his crops — not his best.

God was pleased with Abel’s gift, but not with Cain’s, because Abel gave with a thankful heart.

When Cain saw that God accepted Abel’s offering and not his, jealousy started to grow inside him. Instead of asking God how he could do better, he got angry.

He compared himself to his brother instead of being grateful for what he had.

That jealousy grew and grew — until one day, it turned into something terrible. Cain hurt his brother, and his jealousy cost him everything.

If Cain had stopped and said, “God, I’m sorry. Help me give You my best next time,” things could have been so different.

But jealousy blinded him to what really mattered — his relationship with God and his brother.

Jealousy blocks gratitude.

When you’re focused on what someone else has, you forget how blessed you already are.

Instead of comparing, celebrate.

Be thankful for your gifts, your journey, and your blessings — because God made them just for you.