What if the distance in your marriage isn’t coming from big blowups… but from the little things that stopped being seen?

In this episode of the Brotherhood Forged Podcast, Paul, Joey, and Caleb unpack how unnoticed daily acts and a lack of expressed gratitude slowly create emotional drift, resentment, and isolation in marriage and family.

We walk through a powerful gratitude thought experiment:

From there, we dive into:

How unspoken appreciation quietly erodes closeness in marriage

Why familiarity and busyness condition us to overlook what our wives and families do every day

The danger of scorekeeping (“I do more than they do”) and how it poisons connection

How a growing relationship with Christ reshapes our wants from “me-focused” to “others-focused”

The power of recognizing your spouse’s bids for connection and responding instead of withdrawing

Practical ways to make gratitude a daily rhythm instead of a rare reaction

We also share:

A gratitude journal challenge you can do for your wife (inspired by The Compound Effect)

Simple daily and weekly habits to change the atmosphere of your home through thanksgiving

Why 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (“give thanks in all circumstances”) is not just a nice verse—but God’s will for your life

Whether you feel distant in your marriage, stuck in isolation, or just sensing that you’ve stopped noticing the small things, this episode will challenge you to let gratitude kill the distance and rebuild connection one “thank you” at a time.

1 Thessalonians 5:18 (ESV) – “Give thanks in all circumstances…”

The life of Job as a picture of gratitude and faith in suffering

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