We all know super-annoying people, right? Those who tread on your toes without even noticing it, ouch. When should you speak up? When should you hold your peace? This is really, a pretty hard question. After considering this challenge for a lifetime, I've got some boots-on-the-ground solutions for you, approaches that work in real time. So if you have to deal with someone who's utterly selfish, oblivious, or yes; even a blowhard or a jerk, I've got strategies you can use, that actually work. You can find peace, stand your ground, and feel great about how you've handled things.