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Episode 8: Hall of Mirrors Part 3
Part 3 of Hall of Mirrors. Today we discuss listening as a reflection of behaviors. Check out the first two episodes that discuss home as a reflection of relationships and food as a reflection of mindsets.
· Listening as a reflection of behaviors
o Someone not listening to you: low self-trust. anxiety – fear of looking foolish/fear of being wrong. Trying to think of what to say or how to be right or justify…blocks to listening… Perhaps that’s you.?.
§ Behaviors: perfectionistic. Critical of self (and others). Do not try new things. Don’t trust themselves but still try to control everything around them.
o Someone listening but not contributing – trust is lacking (w/in them and/or between you)
§ Behaviors: anxious (trust lacking w/in), not trusting you (not sharing deeply)
o Someone listening and contributing – trust is high. Growth mindset.
§ Behaviors: not afraid of trying new things. Explorer.
· Story: In high school…chameleon. Thought was good.
· Brought that into marriage: fear of doing something wrong to offend my wife.
· Knowing of I AM now…see mirror/window.
How does understanding listening as a reflection of behaviors help you LEAD Lucky? So many ways you can use this…start with self. Notice what your listening is communicating to others. Helps to see the mirror/window more clearly. Behaviors are just the reflection of the internal process.
Closing: What is one thing you will take away from the episode today? What will you do?
Remember: Living Lucky is not living alone…if this helped you, share it. Second, connect with us and post questions. The links are in the notes… I appreciate being with you today, and I look forward to discussing more about Living Lucky tomorrow.
www.live-lucky.com
https://www.facebook.com/LiveLuckyTherapy
https://www.twitter.com/blakesuzelis
https://www.instagram.com/liveluckytherapy
https://www.linkedin.com/in/blake-suzelis-2a741015/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAMLVaEJBDhT-_3Qe9hrTgw
The Gift of Luck book:
https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Luck-Stages-Lasting-Change/dp/1791954804
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By Dr. Blake SuzelisPart 3 of Hall of Mirrors. Today we discuss listening as a reflection of behaviors. Check out the first two episodes that discuss home as a reflection of relationships and food as a reflection of mindsets.
· Listening as a reflection of behaviors
o Someone not listening to you: low self-trust. anxiety – fear of looking foolish/fear of being wrong. Trying to think of what to say or how to be right or justify…blocks to listening… Perhaps that’s you.?.
§ Behaviors: perfectionistic. Critical of self (and others). Do not try new things. Don’t trust themselves but still try to control everything around them.
o Someone listening but not contributing – trust is lacking (w/in them and/or between you)
§ Behaviors: anxious (trust lacking w/in), not trusting you (not sharing deeply)
o Someone listening and contributing – trust is high. Growth mindset.
§ Behaviors: not afraid of trying new things. Explorer.
· Story: In high school…chameleon. Thought was good.
· Brought that into marriage: fear of doing something wrong to offend my wife.
· Knowing of I AM now…see mirror/window.
How does understanding listening as a reflection of behaviors help you LEAD Lucky? So many ways you can use this…start with self. Notice what your listening is communicating to others. Helps to see the mirror/window more clearly. Behaviors are just the reflection of the internal process.
Closing: What is one thing you will take away from the episode today? What will you do?
Remember: Living Lucky is not living alone…if this helped you, share it. Second, connect with us and post questions. The links are in the notes… I appreciate being with you today, and I look forward to discussing more about Living Lucky tomorrow.
www.live-lucky.com
https://www.facebook.com/LiveLuckyTherapy
https://www.twitter.com/blakesuzelis
https://www.instagram.com/liveluckytherapy
https://www.linkedin.com/in/blake-suzelis-2a741015/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAMLVaEJBDhT-_3Qe9hrTgw
The Gift of Luck book:
https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Luck-Stages-Lasting-Change/dp/1791954804