Why is it so hard for some people to mind there business? 

If no one else ever tells you- it pays to mind your own business. Minding your business even means sitting on the sidelines watching. You don't have to insert yourself in everyone business when it doesn't involve you in any sort of way. If the person isn't being harmed in any way then my suggestion would be is to mind your business and stay out of it. Same with your own personal person if you don't want people meddling in you business learn to keep things to yourself. I hope you all get something out of this episode share if you care to someone else that this would help.