TRIGGER WARNING: Domestic Violence, Physical and Sexual Abuse.

Today’s podcast sheds light on an issue which impacts more women across the world than a lot of people realise. We are talking domestic violence and sadly there has been a steep rise, in cases across the world.

It is a growing crisis, which is further exacerbated  by beliefs and cultural norms in large parts of African. In Nigeria where I grew up, a staggering 23% of women have been victims of physical or sexual violence committed by spouse and due to how scared wedding vows are held, women are encouraged to stay in such relationships even at risk of their own lives.

So how does a woman fare in a society where her marital status may mean more than her very own life? 

My guest today is a brave and courageous survivor who will be sharing her story to enlighten and educate us. Ivie is a mother of 3 beautiful daughters and shares her harrowing experience of domestic abuse at the hands of her ex-husband whom she was married to for 7 years. 

We discuss what it was like for her whilst married and crucially what life has been for her since her separation in a society that often stigmatises women who leave their marriages. 

Ivie has overcome significant adversity and  is a brave and courageous  warrior who embodies what being Unscathed means. 

Some points below on today's show:

1. Today's episode is for you, if you see yourself in any way in Ivie's story. I would like you to know that I see you, I hear you and I hope you take the strength from this show. Don’t let fear hold you back. Do Something. Don't suffer in silence. You are worthy of love and the life you deserve is waiting at the other end of a decision only you can make. 
2. I was moved after recording this episode to set up a GoFundMe page in  support of Ivie.  She is raising her daughters by herself without any financial contributions and is also currently out of work due to the COVID pandemic.  I have linked the GoFundMe page below . I encourage you to give also if you feel led to do so. 
3. Today’s episode includes graphic details relating to physical violence and sexual abuse which some listeners may find distressing. 
4. Finally, this episode considers a singular perspective. Details have not been verified with any other sources other than Ivie herself.   

Thank you for listening 

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