Alzheimer's Thriver

Episode 9: Communicating Without Arguing


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When words don’t come out right — or aren’t received the way you hoped — it’s easy for conversations to spiral into arguments. And when Alzheimer’s is in the mix, it’s even harder. 

In this honest and often humorous episode, Janna and Larry explore why communication can break down so quickly, even with the best intentions. They share real-life examples of misunderstandings, emotional triggers, and missed signals — and offer simple ways couples and care partners can speak (and listen) with more grace. 

You’ll discover: 

  • What to say when your partner is struggling emotionally — and what not to say 
  • Why tone and timing matter more than words alone 
  • How to support someone with memory loss without interrupting or correcting 
  • Tools for staying present and connected, even in conflict 

If you’ve ever wished for more peace in your conversations, this episode is your gentle, heart-level guide to getting there — together. 

Links:

  • Maintaining caring relationships in spouses affected by Alzheimer’s disease. ScienceDaily. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/07/150713095148.htm 
  • Supportive marriages key to caregiver well-being, Rice study reveals vital link to dementia. Rice University https://news.rice.edu/news/2024/supportive-marriages-key-caregiver-well-being-rice-study-reveals-vital-link-dementia 
  • Using validation therapy for people with dementia. Verywell Health.
    https://www.verywellhealth.com/using-validation-therapy-for-people-with-dementia-98683 
  • Alzheimer’s Association. (n.d.). Communication: Tips for successful communication throughout the stages of Alzheimer’s. Alzheimer’s Association
    https://www.alz.org/getmedia/4c29359a-c9f0-4ae1-8f95-27e822635ead/alzheimers-dementia-communication-ts.pdf 
  • 6 things never to do when caring for someone with Alzheimer’s. Verywell Mind
    https://www.verywellmind.com/things-never-to-do-when-caring-alzheimers-8776968 
  • Best Alzheimer’s disease support groups. 
    Verywell Health 
    https://www.verywellhealth.com/best-alzheimers-disease-support-groups-4844290 

Be sure to go to our website at alzheimersthriver.org to learn more about Larry and Janna's adventures.

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