In this episode Kay and Caz explore the various subconscious reasons that you may not be attracting the partner you've always wanted. How your subconscious reactions may be affecting your behaviours and beliefs and sabotaging your relationships. As part of this episode they look at the following topics and how they can be getting in your way:

- Fear of being let down by your partner.

- The need to be the rescuer.

- Not fully over your ex and how to honestly tell when you are.

- Not feeling worthy of being loved.

- Why you might be subconsciously using environmental tactics to attract your mate and why their failing.