#90 – All In Marriage  

Guest: Rob Thorpe  

Men’s Ministry Catalyst

Act Like Men- Men’s Leadership Podcast

Podcast Show Notes 

Rob Thorpe has spoken at dozens of ISI Men’s Conferences over the last decade, as well as the national ISI Marriage Conference. He has held dozens of marriage-related workshops, classes, and retreats for churches in multiple states.  Rob counts it his greatest privilege and honor that he and his wife Billie have been married almost 50 years and couldn’t be prouder of their three awesome adult sons and their thirteen amazing grandchildren.

Rob began this ministry by having couples who were younger than them mentor them in their relationship.  From there, it moved to a life group for young couples, which then moved to conferences and ultimately to several books.   

Rob has several key points:  

1. You cannot learn your way to a great marriage, which most of us try.  
   1. It starts with walking closer and closer with God.  The closer we get to God, the better we will honor and love our wives the way God intends for us to do.  
   2. Getting closer to God and His word helps us to understand that Spiritual Warfare is a part of your life as a believer and even more so as a married believer.   Satan attacked the first couple, and as we know, it had devastating consequences.   Nothing is more important to our enemy than to attack marriages and split us apart, which impacts our children and grandchildren.  
2. Marriage is God’s workshop for showing us how selfish we can be.  Men, we can all be selfish by making other things more important than our marriage, or even just not being engaged fully in our marriage.   Let’s make marriage the most important relationship in our lives, beyond our relationship with God.  
3. Love is a verb, meaning it requires action.   
   1. We need to do something to demonstrate our love for our wives every day.   
   2. We need to be proactive in meeting needs, heading off incoming problems.  
   3. We need to reach out for help early rather than bluff our way to divorce.  

Marriage is the primary institution that God created.  Men, let’s step into this and love and honor our wives and protect our marriages at all costs.   God’s heart will be pleased with us as we do just that.    Praying for you.  

Questions to consider about your marriage:  

1.  Ask your wife how you are doing as a husband.  What one thing can I do for you that you will appreciate and so I am able to demonstrate my love for you?
2. What challenge is in your marriage?  What one thing can you do today to take initiative to resolve this challenge?  Seek a marriage mentor for yourself,   

If you want to connect with Rob Thorpe directly, reach out via email: 

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