The idea of “The Victim Complex” is often used as a weapon by abusers, oppressors, and people who wield power to suppress and silence the victims of that abuse/the people they hold power over. In these scenarios, who really has the victim complex? The one who is simply sharing their experience? Or the one who is gaslighting, deflecting, denying, and doing the most to not accept responsibility. To speak one’s truth is the bravest thing. To own your own story is part of healing–it's inherently empowering. There is a big difference between “playing the victim” and being victimized. Learn it, and “speak your truth, even when your voice shakes.”