End of relationships

Its difficult when a relationship ends. Especially when its not with your choosing to end it. But its how you look at it, such as when every door closes another door opens. However at that time its an emotional time, at the end of that relationship is a phenomenal time in retrospection and a excellent time for opportunity for you to take a moment and reflect on the relationship and be thankful for the both good and bad experiences. Its a good time to ask yourself what’s important to you? What are your standards? Whats are your values? What are you looking for? Who would you like to have in and share your life with? And its also a great time to ask yourself what kind of mate do you want to be ( perhaps you didn’t truly live up to that expectation or got to comfortable and to lazy). Work on those areas in your life that will help attract the type of mate you are looking for. That would be a great opportunity to get yourself straight on what the plan is to