Enough Mom Podcast

Eps 103 | Confidence: Assured in Your Convictions


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Episode Description

In this powerful episode, Jennifer explores the second pillar of the Enough Mom framework: confidence. Through insights on child development and practical wisdom, she reveals how true confidence isn't about faking it—it's about knowing who you are, what you value, and trusting yourself based on the difficult things you've already overcome.

This episode is for every mama who feels overlooked, questions her decisions, or struggles to trust herself as her children grow and change. You'll discover how children build confidence through challenges, why your voice matters in your own home, and how to stand firm in your family values without apology.

Timestamps

00:00 - Welcome to Episode 103: Confidence: Assured in Your Convictions

00:05 - Introduction: What Does It Mean to Be Confident?

01:00 - The Second Pillar of the Enough Mom Framework

02:00 - More Than "Fake It Till You Make It" Confidence

03:00 - Your Voice Matters in Your Own Home

04:00 - Feeling Overlooked and Underappreciated

05:00 - When No One Thanks You for the Meal

06:00 - When Others Question Your Parenting Decisions

07:00 - Building Confidence on Your Own Experiences, Not Others' Approval

08:00 - Child Development: How Children Build Confidence Through Challenge

09:00 - Infant Example: Building Physical Strength and Trust

10:00 - Toddler Example: Testing Boundaries and Learning Through Experience

11:00 - Older Kids Example: Relational Struggles and Emotional Resilience

12:00 - The Mom Side: Watching Your Kids Struggle Without Controlling

13:00 - When Your Teenager Just Needs You to Listen

14:00 - Your Role Changes as Children Grow

15:00 - Accepting Your Current Role at Their Stage of Development

16:00 - Living Out Your Family Values Without Apology

17:00 - Value Rest: Saying No to Every Party Invite

17:30 - Value Creativity: Not Comparing Your Home to Pinterest Perfection

18:00 - Value Authentic Relationships: Teaching Kids Their Voice Matters

18:30 - Your Opinions Matter Because You Matter

19:00 - You Deserve to Be Heard and Take Up Space

19:30 - Building Community Around Your Values

20:00 - Closing & Next Steps

Key Takeaways

✨ True confidence comes from knowing who you are, what you value, and what you truly believe

✨ Your voice matters in your own home—whether you feel in-charge or not

✨ Building confidence is not built on others' approval, but on your own experiences and ability to trust yourself

✨ Children build confidence through personally challenging situations and resilience

✨ Sometimes your child just needs you to be a witness to their thought process, not hand them all the answers

✨ Your role as a mom changes as your children grow—and that's okay

✨ Living out your family values without apology means being clear and kind about what matters most

✨ You have enough in you now to step out and ask for what you need

✨ You need real-life relationships with real people, not just perfect social media snapshots

✨ You are a whole person who deserves to be heard—not just part of the system

Episode Highlights On True Confidence

"I'm not talking about the fake it till you make it kind of confidence... I want us to get down to the core of what it means to have confidence in our choices."

On Your Value as a Mother

"Your voice matters in your own home. Your voice matters. Whether you feel like that in-charge mama or not, many women don't, I want you to walk away believing that you are valuable and that you can step into your confidence as a mother."

On Building Resilience

"Children do not learn and grow to trust themselves unless they're in personally challenging situations. That resilience is what children build when they're in a place that they can learn to struggle through and overcome something."

On Changing Roles

"It's more about, do I trust that I've given them enough to make their own good decisions? It's hard to work out of that role because your role does change slightly."

On Family Values

"Living out your family values without apology does not mean that you need to be harsh or defensive about things. It means being clear and kind about what matters most to your family."

On Your Worth

"Your opinions matter because you matter. Do you believe that? Do you believe that you have the right to take up space in this world, that you have a voice that needs to be shared?"

About the Host

Jennifer Bryant is an educational leader, having worked in every sector of school from public to private to homeschool. She is a California girl living in Hawaii, homeschool mama to teenagers, and recovering perfectionist. As an ADHD mom and former authoritative parent turned compassionate parent, she brings raw honesty and deep insight to conversations about maternal mental health. Jennifer is passionate about helping mothers find courage, build confidence, and walk boldly in their calling.

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