"Cancel culture" is what bigoted Fox News anchors, problematic starlets, and washed-up comedians call taking accountability--buuut more and more people are experiencing public shaming and the use of internet callouts as a power play amongst people who may not have entirely altruistic motives. When does activism turn into bullying? Have we lost sight of the goal? Is "perfect" even attainable? Is there a way to foster communication and accountability without adding shame to the situation? It may be time to have this conversation, after all, you could be next.