Erectile difficulties happen to so many penis owners, yet it’s still one of the most misunderstood and anxiety-inducing challenges in the bedroom. In this episode, I unpack the real reasons behind erection struggles—beyond just physical causes—and explore the psychological, relational, and emotional factors that play a huge role.

We’ll cover:

Why erectile issues are not just about aging or testosterone

The mind-body connection—how anxiety can be the biggest erection killer

How to talk to your partner about it without shame or pressure

Practical, science-backed ways to rebuild confidence and pleasure

Whether this is something you’ve personally faced or you’re supporting a partner through it, this episode will help you understand what’s really going on—and what you can do about it. My hope is this will take the fear out of the conversation and bring connection back into your bedroom.

Resources:

My website https://www.afterinlove.com/

Lori Brotto's meditations https://www.loribrotto.com/mindfulness-recordings