ERP 398: How To Experience Both Freedom & Connection In Relationship — An Interview With Dr. Don St John

In a society that highly values individual achievements and personal pursuits, the dynamics of maintaining emotional closeness within relationships undergo a subtle but significant transformation. Emphasizing autonomy, self-expression, and personal goal pursuit, societal norms shape how individuals navigate connections. In this episode, we explore the nuanced dynamics of emotional intimacy within the context of contemporary societal norms that often prioritize individual pursuits. The discussion delves into the delicate interplay between autonomy and togetherness, shedding light on the challenges individuals face in maintaining meaningful connections while pursuing personal goals. The impact of trauma on relationships is unpacked, highlighting the complexities of healing in the realm of emotional closeness.  Join us as we navigate the fine line between independence and the inherent desire for emotional proximity, unraveling the secrets to fostering meaningful connections in a culture that champions individuality. Dr. St John is a psychotherapist, somatic fluid movement and meditation educator, and author of “Healing the Wounds of Childhood and Culture: An Adventure of a Lifetime”. He overcame severe childhood trauma and has engaged in the healing process both personally and professionally for 60 years. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 5:09 From brokenness to healing: Dr. Don St John’s personal and professional journey. 11:30 The coherence model: Balancing freedom and cohesion in intimate relationships. 14:56 The importance of embracing both closeness and independence in a relationship. 27:09 Navigating change, personal growth, and cultural shifts. 32:47 Shifting from individual identity to cooperative connection. 50:06 Additional resources and information. Mentioned Healing the Wounds of Childhood and Culture: An Adventure of a Lifetime (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: 30th Anniversary Edition (The Covey Habits Series) (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love ERP 348: Access Intraconnection for Well-Being — An Interview with Dr. Daniel Siegel Connect with Dr. Don St John Websites: pathsofconnection.com Facebook: facebook.com/don.s.john.90 Instagram: instagram.com/drdonstjohn LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/don-st-john-36636a55 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: [email protected] If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.