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Escaping the Drama Triangle and Victim Mentality | ✨ A Course in Miracles


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“I am not the victim of the world I see.” – A Course in Miracles Workbook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, Lesson 31


What if you stopped identifying with the part of you that feels powerless?


What if you could claim your power, right now, from the inside out?


In this episode, we explore Lesson 31 from the A Course in Miracles Workbook for Students⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, which invites us to break free from the illusion of victimhood. We examine how the stories we tell about ourselves—especially ones rooted in helplessness, blame, or fear—shape the world we see. And more importantly, how we can begin to write new ones.


This lesson is a call to radical responsibility. Not as a burden—but as a path back to our power, agency, and peace.


Whether you’ve been looping in blame, waiting to be rescued, or doubting your ability to change… this episode offers a gentle but clear reminder:


You are not a victim. You are a creator.


Key Insights from Lesson 31

Freedom is an inside job: Real freedom doesn’t come from changing external circumstances—it begins when we stop believing the ego’s script of helplessness and choose to see through the eyes of love and strength.


Perception is projection: Your outer world reflects your inner beliefs. Victimhood distorts your perception and locks you into reactive loops. But when you shift your mindset, even slightly, the world reflects that softness and sovereignty back to you.


Responsibility is not blame—it’s empowerment: To say “I am not a victim” isn’t to dismiss the pain you’ve lived through. It’s to stop giving it control over your present. You can choose again. You can write a new chapter. One rooted in compassion, clarity, and conscious choice.


Reflection Questions

  • Where in my life do I feel like a victim right now—and what narrative is fueling that feeling?

  • If I fully embraced that I am not a victim of the world I see, how might I meet today’s challenges with more personal power and agency?

  • Is there a story I’ve outgrown but still wear like a second skin? What belief would I need to release to return to who I truly am?

  • What’s one small way I can reclaim authorship of my life today, instead of waiting to be rescued or fixed?


RESOURCES MENTIONED

  • The Three Faces of Victimhood: An Overview of the Victim Triangle
  • Identifying the Drama Triangle
  • Making the Shift From Drama to Empowerment


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