Esoteric N Chill

What do you do when you feel like the rest of society is on a completely different wavelength from the one you're on? I recently had an existential crisis and was forced to ask myself that very question over and over again. Want to know the answer this Spiritual Bimbo came up with?

Be true to yourself.

You see, this world is not all love and light. It’s full of superficiality, fakeness, and pain. But even with all of those negative things, God is still present in everything. That’s what makes this the Earth School that it is. It’s not SUPPOSED to be easy. It’s supposed to teach us lessons that will help us to be the best versions of ourselves that we can possibly be.

When you’re able to be true to yourself, you can learn to live with all of the unpleasantness in the world. Even when things don’t make sense, you’ll always be able to take something with you that will help you grow. Put up solid boundaries to protect yourself from toxicity, surround yourself with people that will lift you up, and always strive to be a better human.

It’s a weird world that we live in, guys.

Enjoy the episode and happy healing!

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“Everything is higher learning and has a medicine when you choose to look at it that way."
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - Why Everything is God
6:32 - TikTok. It’s Great… But Toxic
8:20 - My Thoughts on Statistics About Society
13:14 - What Being Successful Really Represents
18:38 - The Value of Making an Effort in Relationships
23:52 - The Importance of Being True to Yourself While Holding Up Your Boundaries
27:40 - Why I Pray for Others

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In today’s world, being different can be challenging. After all, society is not set up for people who crave being unique. It’s filled with superficial people and superficial things, which can be VERY tiring for a Spiritual Bimbo like me.

That’s why this episode is all about existential clarity and how to cope with a world that doesn’t seem to have any interest in going beneath the surface; a world that doesn't want to discover new insights and new ways of being. It’s also about the constant learning process that we call life, and how to squeeze every ounce of goodness and love out of that journey.

Being different may feel like a burden at times, but I would never trade the clarity I have today for my old life. As challenging as it may be to feel like you don’t fit in with the people around you, just think about the alternative: Would you really want to go through life on auto-pilot? I certainly would not!

I hope you enjoy the episode! And if you want to support me, head over to OnlyBella.com and subscribe for FREE!

Happy healing!

“I’d rather share about my life because I’m constantly learning from it. Constantly learning from it.”
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
2:10 - The Barbie Movie Conversation
4:32 - The Problem with Being Caught Up in the Superficial
5:56 - Learning to See Beyond the Good
7:44 - The Challenges of Being Different
13:10 - Why It’s So Important to Resist Negative Urges
16:18 - Take Advantage of the Divine Opportunities!
20:20 - Embrace Being More, Don’t Limit Yourself

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It’s been five years since your girl, Isabella James (aka Spiritual Bimbo), quit drinking alcohol and guess what? It’s time to celebrate the beauty of living sober!

That’s right. A lot of people who were once junkies feel ashamed of their past and decide to block it out altogether. But to me, my drug and alcohol-consuming self from my past forms a part of who I am today. The challenges I went through to become the sober and spiritually aware person that I am today were well… challenging. And I’m proud of what I’ve accomplished.

So in this episode I’ll be talking about my personal experiences with drugs and alcohol, what I’ve learned from them, and why to me there’s NOTHING better than living sober.

Whether you’d like to quit alcohol yourself or not – this episode may just resonate with you in ways you least expect! Check it out!

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“You don’t like everybody so why would you care if everybody likes you?
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
2:32 - Seeing Diplo While High
3:28 - Anxiety Attack in Puerto Rico
7:37 - Roots of Drinking and Drug Use
9:50 - What Is Drinking Responsibly?
13:24 - The Problems with Alcohol and Sex
18:58 - Be Proud of Where You’ve Come From!
23:00 - But Can You Party Sober?

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In today’s world of constant negative messaging, loving yourself is more important than ever. That’s why in this episode of Esoteric N’ Chill, I’m sharing my top methods for cultivating self love in my daily life.

If you’ve listened to any of my past episodes, you may recognize some of the strategies I talk about in this episode. And that’s because these are the most powerful tools that we possess for generating abundance and love in our lives. But here’s the thing – as common sense as some of these methods may sound, the real challenge is actually doing them!

Ask yourself this:

Are you using fitness as a way to generate abundant self love?

Are you following your own desires instead of what society is calling on you to do?

The truth is, loving yourself is an ongoing process. You’ll have good days and bad days depending on what you’re dealing with at any given moment. But if you can implement some of the strategies that I talk about in this episode, you’ll always have what you need to create more love in your life.

If you’ve ever wondered how this Spiritual Bimbo stays on her love frequency, check out the episode!

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“What’s the point of having relationships if you’re not benefiting each other?”
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
3:44 - It’s Not About What You Do But How You Do It
6:32 - My Reaction to a Message from Fiji Fck Boy
13:14 - Six Strategies for Loving Yourself
13:24 - 1#: Fitness
17:00 - 2#: Meditation
18:14 - 3#: Doing Stuff I Actually Enjoy
22:02 - 4#: Using Everything As a Spiritual Practice
25:04 - 5#: Forgiveness
26:58 - 6#: Vocalize Boundaries

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Can you do sex work and still be a spiritual being? The answer, of course, is YES! You can be whoever you want to be, even when it comes to adult entertainment jobs. In this episode of Esoteric N’ Chill, I’ll be explaining my approach to adult industry jobs and how I manage to remain a Spiritual Bimbo – even when I’m rubbing my pussy in front of the camera!

The first thing to understand is that you are the only person who gets to define who you are. It’s not your family, your job, or your past – YOU are the one only person in control of your identity.

But how do you stay true to who you are?

Some of the insights from this episode that may help you include the importance of intention, learning how to clear your energy, and setting boundaries.

These are things that I do regularly to keep myself spiritually aligned while working in the adult industry. I hope they help you navigate your own spiritual journey!

“What you do doesn’t define who you are.”
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro/My Water Fast
4:20 - Low Vibe vs High Vibe Porn
6:30 - Balancing Who I Am with Adult Entertainment Jobs
9:26 - Why It’s All About Your Intention
13:58 - Clearing My Energy
14:44 - Setting Boundaries
16:02 - Celebrating Different Aspects of Me

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Every time I take a trip to Las Vegas, it seems like I end up telling myself I gotta get my life together. And guess what? That’s exactly what happened to me during my most recent Vegas trip. In this episode, your favorite Spiritual Bimbo is sharing what went wrong for me in Vegas and how I learned from the experience.

It really began right when I got there. You see, I had a VERY hard time falling asleep, which meant I was not functioning at 100%. Far from it. In fact, between not being able to sleep and having a series of low vibrational experiences, this trip to Las Vegas was a major test for me.

But on the flip side, this Vegas trip also showed me just how far I’ve come and just how much I’ve grown spiritually. If you wanna hear about the importance of sleep, trusting your intuition, and how I dealt with a series of unpleasant experiences – have a listen!

“At the end of the day, everything’s a fucking frequency.”
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
6:15 - Why This Trip to Las Vegas Was a Mistake
7:56 - The Importance of Sleep (& what happens when I don’t get it)
11:04 - My Experience with CBD and Melatonin
13:26 - My Terrible Rap Club Experience
18:40 - Why I Protect My Energy
20:08 - What I Enjoyed During My Vegas Trip
22:15 - Listen to Your Intuition!

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Is it wrong to not care sometimes? Contrary to what people may tell you, there is nothing wrong with setting boundaries in your life! In fact, if there’s anything you take away from this episode, it’s that it’s okay to say “no” to things that don’t align with you.

That’s right, in this episode, your girl Isabella James (aka Spiritual Bimbo) is going to be discussing the difference between apathy and enlightenment; between having healthy boundaries and simply caving in to societal conditioning.

Because there is a BIG difference between establishing your personal boundaries and just “going with the flow.” And it’s an important part of learning to be true to yourself. Whether you’re on a spiritual journey or trying to improve yourself in some other way, setting boundaries is a necessary part of remaining in alignment with who you are.

After all, what’s the point of getting to know yourself if you don’t actually honor the person that you are?

If you’ve ever felt like a weirdo for simply not giving a fuck… then this episode is for you!

“Not everybody deserves a fucking participation trophy.”
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - The Beauty of Removing Toxic People from Your Life
10:04 - Am I Apathetic or Enlightened?
11:26 - Why Being Highly Sensitive Is a Gift
14:42 - How to Detach from Your Thoughts and Emotions
17:04 - How to Be Discerning in Each New Situation
28:52 - Self Check-In: Is It Your Values… Or Your Conditioning?

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Did you know our romantic relationships can be our greatest teachers? I recently got out of what I consider to be a twin flame relationship and it taught me a LOT about myself as both a romantic partner and as a person. In this episode, your favorite Spiritual Bimbo is going to be digging deep and revealing the most important lessons that I took from that recent experience.

If you don’t already know, a twin flame connection is INTENSE, guys. It’s when you meet someone who is just like you and you click on so many levels. But… as you can imagine, dating someone who shares so many of your traits (both the good AND the bad) can make twin flame relationships very tumultuous.

Fortunately, I always seek to grow and improve with every new romantic relationship. And this time around was no different. From creating boundaries to realizing why monogamy (ish) is my preferred style of relationship, there is a lot that I cover in this episode.

Think your own relationships could be better?

If so, this episode is for you!

“Relationships are our greatest teachers.”
-Isabella James

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
4:50 - The Problem with Playing the Victim
8:04 - What is a Twin Flame Relationship?
10:06 - Create & Respect Boundaries
16:30 - Being Alone Allows You to Heal
17:06 - My Preferred Romantic Relationship is Monogamous (w/ possibilities)
29:02 - Believe in Yourself
30:28 - You Have to Fill Your Own Cup Before Others’
36:06 - Be Aware of Your Deep-Rooted Patterns

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Do you struggle to cultivate healthy relationships? Do you find yourself falling into the same relationship patterns over and over again? In this episode of Esoteric N’ Chill, your favorite spiritual bimbo is going to be giving you some tips that will help you finally break your destructive relationship habits so that you can truly heal.

The thing is, relationships should contribute to our well-being. But unfortunately, finding the right kind of people who will support you on your journey is easier said than done. There are just SO many things that can get in the way of cultivating healthy relationships. Everything from past traumas to the desire for comfort to a lack of awareness are just a few of the obstacles that can keep us stuck.

But when you do start healing relationship patterns that have been holding you back, you’ll be surprised at how the effects multiply and touch every other aspect of your life. That’s because relationships help define who we are. Fix your relationships and your entire life will change for the better.

“You can’t have a chemical solution for a spiritual problem."
-Isabella James

Links Mentioned
👉 Tony Robbins Trauma:
https://esotericnchill.buzzsprout.com/2126470/12444874-4-tony-robbins-trauma

👉 Phi Network:
https://phi.network/

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
2:40 - Invest in the Future (Crypto Tangent)
9:22 - Identify Your Unhealthy Relationships
14:40 - Learn How to React to Past Traumas
20:52 - Interrupt Your Patterns
22:40 - How Is This Reflecting How You Feel?
25:34 - Healthy Relationships Start With You
28:42 - Try New Things

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You can’t have true wealth without getting healthy first. After all, money can buy you things, but can it connect you to the universe? Can it give you that deep satisfaction that we all crave?

The answer, of course, is a resounding “no.”

True wealth goes much deeper than the number of digits in your bank account. In fact, with the right healthy habits, you can access true wealth right now – no matter what kind of situation you’re currently in.

And since you already know I’m a real one, in this episode of Esoteric N' Chill I share the habits that I personally use in my own life. These include creating a spiritual practice, embracing gratitude , and being intentional about everything you consume.

With these healthy habits, true wealth is right at your fingertips. So what are you waiting for?? Start applying them today! And remember, you can be anything you want to be… so make it good!

“You need to just focus on getting yourself to a safe set point where you can flourish and truly grow to the next versions of yourself that you’re calling in.”
- Isabella James

Timestamps
0:50 - Personal Journaling
6:06 - Why Journaling Is a Manifestation Tool
7:28 - Why Meditation Is Key to Getting Healthy
8:44 - The Value of Being Your True Self
11:07 - Breathwork + Bodily Awareness
14:55 - Gratitude
17:45 - Conscious Media Consumption
20:11 - Eating Consciously and Taking Care of Your Body

Connect with Isabella James
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2.    Ineedbella.com all my socials
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