Today we’re stepping into a conversation that so many people carry quietly: estrangement. It’s a subject filled with complexity, grief, unanswered questions, and deeply human longing.

This episode was sparked by a recent Oprah conversation with mental-health professionals and families navigating estrangement, along with an article by Patty Slo Munson, LCPC, titled “Estrangement: The New Epidemic for Parents of Adult Children.” Both reveal a painful trend—more adult children are cutting contact without explanation, leaving parents in a fog of confusion and heartbreak.

In this episode, I open my heart and share my own experience.
 For the past three years, I have been estranged from my adult son—a reality I never imagined. I talk through:

• the moment he told me he didn’t feel loved, despite my unwavering devotion
• the confusion and shock that came after I helped him and his wife during the birth of their baby
• the abrupt shift that led to silence, distance, and unanswered questions
• the pain of replaying years of parenting, searching for where things went wrong
• and the deep ache of loving someone so fiercely while being shut out of their life

I also share a second layer of this journey—my estrangement from my mom, and how that experience unfolded during the most fragile and painful season of my life.
 It is honest, raw, and deeply vulnerable.

But this episode is not just about heartbreak. It is also about healing, self-love, and rebuilding from the inside out.

Over the last three years, I have walked through therapy, grief, self-reflection, and the painful but necessary decision to choose myself. I talk about:

• learning to stop begging for love
• recognizing emotional patterns that were harming me
• listening to my own inner voice for the first time
• rebuilding self-worth after years of shrinking
• creating a safer, stronger, more grounded version of myself

If you are navigating estrangement—whether from a parent, a child, or someone you love—please know you are not alone. This episode offers understanding, compassion, and hope for anyone who feels the ache of distance.

You deserve to feel loved, supported, and whole.
 Your life is not over.
 There is light ahead.

Thank you for being here with me today.
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At the bottom of this episode, you’ll find a short summary and additional resources