Everybody is different. But culture says you must be like us. I could lie telling you everything is going to be all right, cause if you have the power to use force to apprehend, you may want to do that. For every action there's an equal opposite action and group think can be very ugly. We're closer to animal behavior than we think, cause we're not the only ones that laugh. But this is no laughing situation. Consumerism hurts.