People often have real resistance to believing that everyone is doing the best they can. But we/they are. It's called Psychological Innocence. We, and I mean all of us, can only live from our level of understanding at any given moment. Low level of understanding=pretty unpleasant experience of life. The cost of living disconnected from understanding can be really high. From brutal relationships to bad health and constant conflict and challenge, living from a low level of understanding can be extraordinarily expensive. Good news is that it's not that difficult to shift.