Today I learned everything makes a difference. It is kind of easy to think that the small things I do to attract the girls I want make no difference. It’s kind of easy for me to believe that I put in all this work and yet still have little to show for it. But I don’t think it’s that simple. It’s my understanding that everything makes a difference. The small things as well as the big things. I think this is the case for one becuase the act itself of doing small things towards a particular goal draws you closer to that goal. It feeds the fire and spurs more ideas which increase your chances of achieving the overall aim. That’s been my experience. I’ve been coming up with ideas as to how to make myself more appealing to the girls I want and me testing out those ideas spurs other ideas. Some seem to have more of a dramatic effect than others but still the act of carrying out each one gives birth to more. Another reason why I think everything makes a difference is because human beings are very perceptive creatures. Our brains are always anyalzing our surroundings. Even when we aren’t consciously aware of a change a person has made to themselves our brains let us know.

Our brains gives a feeling that something is off pattern which then leads us to figure out what is different. Lastly I think everything makes a difference because a small number of changes made everyday can have a compounding effect of a span of time. A small number of changes made everyday can really change the direction of anything. I was going in a very bad direction for sometime. My life is better because I made that small change consistently. It’s just easy to think that not everything makes a difference. It leaves room to not do or not do as much one would if they believed the otherwise. But I know the work I’m doing is making a difference. I know I’m getting closer to my goal. I notice how better looking girls are more drawn to me now than would of been otherwise. It’s just about me being patient. And continually putting in the work and thinking critically. Especially with time as an asset I’m bound to get what I want.