What happens when you want to live alone, but stay married? How much room do your relationships hold for each person to grow? What are you willing (and unwilling!) to compromise on?

Ev'Yan Whitney (they/she) joins us to share details about the time they recently spent living apart from their husband, Jonathan, and what it looked like for them to be apart, together. We talk about establishing your own identities and individuality in a long-term relationship, and explore what it means to grow together vs grow apart. 

You can find Ev'Yan at evyanwhitney.com and on IG @evyan.whitney

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[Full transcript of this episode is available here]