Hey sis! This week we are kicking off the ex-files series where we explore how our trauma, limiting beliefs, and feelings of lack may be contributing to the types of relationship patterns we have been unknowingly welcoming in. This episode is a clip taken from a bonus video "Trauma, Security, & Prioritizing Your Needs" in my mini course, Heart Healing 101 which you can find here. Tune in to listen now! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com  

94. [Ex Files] Trauma Bonds & Security in Relationships

Welcome to The Self Love Fix Podcast. I’m your host, Beatrice -an embodiment coach, teacher, and mentor, and founder of The Self Love Over Codependency Program.

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Believe it or not, I didn’t always embody self-trust. Most of my life, I lived at the mercy of what other people thought of me. It was only during a very low point I experienced during grad school where I asked myself, “Where does your need for perfectionism come from?”

This was a game-changing moment for me. For the first time in my life, I asked myself about the origins of my behavior instead of blaming myself for them. 

From then on, I promised to live out my passion and mission for embodying my true essence and to teach others to do the same.

That’s exactly why I created this podcast. This podcast is all about helping you shift from shame, people-pleasing, codependency, low self-esteem, and self-doubt and into alignment, expansion, and unapologetic self-trust through spirituality and healing the inner-child.
 
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In this episode we chat....  Wounded feminine vs. Balanced feminine when it comes to what she's LOOKING FOR in dating   Why his ATTENTION shouldn't be impressive The difference between ATTENTION and being VALUED   WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to purchase dating apps 101 If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to tell a friend to tell a friend about this podcast!

240. Talk is Cheap, Attention is a Dime a Dozen, and Value is QUEEN!

In this episode we chat....  The difference between the WOUNDED feminine and BALANCED feminine and how BOTH impact your dating life  How to shift from SCARCITY to ABUNDANCE in dating  What IS relaxed dating and why dating was NEVER meant to be frantic or have you anxious and on TEN checking your phone every couple of minutes   WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to purchase dating apps 101 If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!

239. RELAXED dating (in your feminine) 101

Listen to this to....  REMEMBER who God designed you to be and to understand the VALUE of a woman  To STOP holding on for dear life for someone who doesn't put in any EFFORT TO EARN YOU To understand WHY the feminine is meant to be in a position of CHOOSING who is worthy of her heart not for her to be GIVING it to any old anybody   WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to get access to Dating Apps 101 the masterclass shhhh it hasn't been released to the public yet but i'm quietly dropping it here (Save $10 through 4/18 ONLY) If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were. Make sure to share this with someone who needs it!  

238 If You Feel Like He Doesn't VALUE You, Listen to This

It's... been a while hasn't it bestie?! Well I have an AMAZING episode for you ALL about why it's been so hard for you to "know your worth" and why you should focus on knowing your VALUE instead. Your VALUE in general AND your VALUE in dating, relationships, marriage, work, your business etc, Tell a friend to tell a friend that i'm back!! WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for 1:1 coaching on dating/relationships If you're ready to go from SITUATIONSHIP to RELATIONSHIP, snag the FREE 5-day email bootcamp by clicking here CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.  

236 Value vs. Worthiness (I'm Back!)

There's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating. Listen in to this week's episode to find out more! CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR FREE FOR THE 4 DAY LIVE ONLINE EVENT ELEVATED IN LOVE where you learn how to go from confused about your love life to navigating love and dating with maturity and confidence  WORK WITH BEATRICE: Click here to apply for 1:1 personal coaching and-- BIRTHDAY MONTH SPECIAL--enjoy BONUS month of coaching calls + voxer access when you begin coaching by January 31st! CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

94. [Ex Files] Trauma Bonds & Security in Relationships

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